I have another question for you. I have asked this in some form or another as part of longer posts, but I want some opinions, or some commiseration. Right now, in my R there is really not much positive going on. Let me explain. Financially, like many people, we are tapped after Christmas. The bills are just barely getting paid (BTW, that is on us, poor planning), there is no expendable income, etc. Also, the kids are at the ages (well, really when aren't they) when they both are a handfull and their behavior is causing some stress, especially our S3. What I am getting at is that I worry about how attractive our life, never-mind me, would be to someone. Take for example an alien who may be thinking of landing her spaceship and exploring the environment for inhabitability. She has her home world, full of beauty and wonder, with care and love abound. She is not sure if her world will be destroyed by that asteroid hurtling through space toward it, but as she explores this new world, she's not sure at all that living with the possibility of destruction by asteroid is worse than living under this new world's conditions. Forgive the terrible, corny analogy, but I wonder what, if any, effect our overall home-life situation plays in all this. Is this a factor for any of you? Are your financial situations, kids, and the like ok other than your WAS doing what they're doing or are there other factors that could be contributing to them feeling dissatisfied?