The rest of the time the marriage was serviceable prior to the affair, and became awful after the affair. One partner has the affair, ruins the marriage, and then flees the wreckage.
So where does that leave us? I have liked your "overquoting" to this point, but what does this one mean? She is going to bolt after this because it's too much to try and fix her damage? So, in light of this, is it incumbent upon us LBS to make sure the WAS knows they have a safe place to return should they decide to? Can I take that positive away?
