I quess its good to know that at least she won't be serving any papers :-) In all seriousness, I guess that's really the least of all your worries. It truly is one of those things that you have no control over. Even without the lawyer, things are going to be as they are. Thw WAS is going to still feel the way she does and we have no ability to change it. I truly believe that we both are on the right path here, we may falter, but, at least from my personal observations, its not nearly as far as we have faltered in the past. I used to process, talk and badger to death about issues that I had no control over. Do those things still bother me? Well, yeah, but I have the ability to let them go a LOT quicker than I used to. It appears that you have come that far as well. You figure, its only been a month since you and I have begun this process, relatively speaking, its a short time to expect results...it both took our marriages several years to get where they are today.
Patience, love and understanding!
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
