This is not the final act by far! You are going to be just fine! You are trying to guess what is going to happen, and it is driving you crazy. If she talks to a lawyer, it is not the end. She is looking for answers to. The fact is you can't control her actions anymore, and you feel out of control because you can't control the situation. I have been there it is hard. I thought the end was there when my W went to a lawyer, but it actually brought her into reality how brutal the whole process is and there are other choices rather than the big D! GH you are strong! Don't react out of emmotion. I have done it many times and it does not help! You can make it through this! Don't even address when she comes home tonite! It will just pressure her and let her think you are trying to control her again! Take a deep breath! You will be OK!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
