The more you divulge your sitch, the more I'm convinced we married the same woman! I am completely the same way at home, always have been in terms of service, maybe not in terms of words of affirmation, but always the one to go out of my way for drinks, service, etc. On the other hand, I often wonder whether my she has even cared to speak my language, but that's something for another day.
OK so we all married the same woman! On top of that we all did the same things! What does that tell us? HeII if I know??? No really it should tell us that there is a definite pattern here and we need to change our behaviors. The only thing we can change is our behaviors and actions. I always have been a service orientated person. I like to make sure everyone has what they need, but I forget sometimes what Tim needs. I will not change that part of my personality about watching out for what other people need, except that I will be more sensitive to how it impacts myself!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
