I am SO glad you are here. You WILL get help here. Did you start a thread yet?
For the rest of you, Dukie contacted me through a site I have not been active on since the beginning of this thing and I sent him here.
I hope you find some solace here Dukie. I have for sure, and made some life-long friends along the way too. So, feel free to email me with directions to your thread, or just post a link in my thread, that way maybe some others will look in on you. If it is applicable, do it on this board, if not, find the one that best fits your sitch and post there.