The tought thing is we do not know exactly what our W are thinking! We over analyze it, and speculate the worst! Take a breather! Don't react! I have been there several times and whenever I have said or did anything with this new found info it has blown up in my face!
What is keeping me going is the dream of tomorrow! The dream that I have evolved into the strong independent person that I know I am, who is capable of love, and willing to share it with people! And on that day my W sees it in me and then I am strong enought to decide if I want to share it with her or not! We can't get to the point by trying to control our W or let our emmotions cntrol our actions! You are strong and listen to all of us don't do anything!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
