I am shaking so much I can't type. I don't have much time, but I did something I keep advising all of you not to do. My W's phone was sitting on the counter and she was in the shower. She claims to never text message anyone, but since so many of you talk about you W/H and the OP texting, of course, I had to snoop. Worst mistake of my life. She didn't text him, but there were dozens of texts from him, pages of them. Everyone was "I love you sweetie" and "sleep well my love" "see you tomorrow xoxoxo" his work schedule, etc. I am devastated. Why did I have to find this today. Why did I look. Now I have to face a house full of friends and family and try to act like I don't hate my wife. Right now I can't stop shaking. I knew this was probably the case but seeing it, in writing is something I don't know how to handle. Please, help me. I am going to try my best but I don't know if that's good enough. Please, for all you who are thinking of snooping and have not yet, DON'T. I can't take this. It's about time for a talk with my W...
