It means that I have never really been in a "normal" relationship that is based on something other then them needing me, or me perceiving them as needing me Hi there, I don't know what I can offer by way of advice, but I'll tell you this--there must be some draw to this feeling. My H. told me that o.w. needs him. She claims domestic abuse and was separated when they met. So, my question, to take this slowly, is, how do you feel when you first meet a woman like this? What is the draw? Can you explain why you are attracted to women who make you feel this way?
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
