THIS IS WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO!!! If I had reacted to my assumptions about where she was, who she might be with, or why she was pissy with me, I would have had a HUGE fight and things would be 4 steps back. GH
Amen my brother! You are so money and you don't even know it. Yes, you are exactly right. I find myself doing the same things...getting worked up, in a tizzy, ready to accuse and so forth, but lately (not always, i'm not an expert) I've found myself talking myself out of it instead of into it. Even when I do start a backslide, I can now see it starting and usually back the brakes on it REAL quick.
A C? Try at the least an A- in my book.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu