Thanks Rob. She called back, from the place and was in a totally different mood (of course I think that's because OM was not right there) and used her normal, calm, almost sweet tone of voice in asking me specifics about the soccer thing she needed to know for the forms she was filling out. It was a pleasant conversation and went without emotional hitch. Who the hell knows these days. I will keep on keepin on and let you all know how tonight goes providing I don't need another intervention before then.