Man, I really am feeling you right now! I really do. Nothing I'd like to do more than right now is to lay into my W for a lot of things. But....and here's the kicker, neither you or I should. What will it solve? Nothing. Will you feel better? Temporarily, until you find yourself feeling guilty for backsliding and then find yourself apologizing for getting angry (yes, I've done it a thousand times). Point is, you can't do anything about it and no matter what level of dissatisfaction you display to her, you'll end up regretting it sooner or later.
just my .02 worth.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu