seriously though, I can empathize. Part of what boggles my mind is how, similarly, my W can pull stuff like this and all I want to yell is "what right do you have to demand anything of me!!" But, I guess part of it is, they are still married to us, and despite what's happening behind the scenes, they still see us as the "sounding board". Oftentimes I'll sit there and ask myself, I wonder if OM has ever got to see this side. Obviously, that's a no!
Deep cleansing breathes....and now get back to your day!
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu