Well, I just got off the phone with my W. She's all pissed off because I told her she had until 4 to sign up S5 for soccer and I called to tell her it cut off at 2:00. She's all pissed and saying over and over how now she won't have time to get everything done for S3's party tomorrow, how she would have gone over there already and now she's going to have to leave what she's doing, blah blah blah... I am fuming. I did not get confrontational. I probably apologized a few times when I should not have but the bottom line is this: she drops the kids off at school at 8:30am. She picks them up at 3:30pm. It's now 12:45pm and she claims to have all these things she needs to do starting now. WTF has she been doing all day, this most busy of days, that she was not able to get anything done so far? When was she PLANNING on going there. Not after she picks the kids up, no time then. So before? When? She was just starting to do shopping she says not she won't have time to do after (remember, they close at 2 so she'd have 1 1/2 hours to shop, the center is very close to the soccer place). Come on. I am detaching and all that happy $hit but give me a break. I have to hear about how I screwed up over the time they close, and take her venting because she has to cut short her day with the OM? OH, I know, I don't know that's where she is...hmmmmmmm... Then she gets all into me about whether I really want him to do soccer (something SHE's been pushing forever), and how the schedule is going to mess other things up, etc. How, I am going to have to take him to practice...blah blah blah... Test. I know, test. This is really a first for her though. I have not called her on her "never having time for xxxxx" which is new since this affair. Funny, she had nothing but time to get anything she needed to get done before. I want to call her on it. Ask her where she was all morning that she's so rushed now. Oh, she'll say at the gym (for 3 hours?) and getting lunch. Well, if that's your priority, then don't freakin yell at me about not having time! Ok. I have to breathe. Please tell me to stop.
