I am just discovering myself. For me, I know who I am to the outside world for the most part, I just need to know who I am inside. I have NEVER known that. So, rather than take an art class, or go dancing, I am spending time discovering who I am. I do plenty of things that make me happy, whether with my kids or on my own. I jog, play pool, go to basketball games, take my kids hiking, do personal photography (as opposed to my work), read, veg and listen to my iPod (usually fiction books), play my PS2, etc.