Quote: . I am stuck thinking that all this DBing is really just proving to her that I can be the greatest friend a woman could ever have, even sticking by her while she does another man. WHAT A GREAT GUY!
Cricket I use to think the same way, and then one day I realized that I had to be the best person I could be. The person that I found again was the man who had a big heart and could be friends with just about anyone. I also realized that my W and I would always have the bond of the kids and it would be alot easier being good friends than enemies. Yeah I struggle with that today....that standing by being a good friend and person while my W goes out and does who knows what with OM! The thing I realized and you helped me Cricket (sorry Grasshopper) is that you have to detatch and be the person you want to be and let your W make the decisions she wants and live with the consequences!
PS Maybe I am in Florida instead of the "Great White North"
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
