I had the whip ready the minute I heard you cut off your hair!! Tisk, tisk tisk...but okay...you grew a goatee...we'll let you slide this time.
WAS say all kinds of stuff when they are in an A. Things to help them convince themselves that they making the right decision and to ease the guilt.
Unless she was a mailorder bride from the UK, trust me GH, there was physical attraction and romantic love. But probably life got in the way somewhere. When I say life, I mean the day to day stuff, work, family, responsibility. Believe it or not, sometimes life does get in the way of Ms. Imagine that...that's why it is so important to never forgoe the love of your spouse. Make them and your relationship a priority. You take the time out, dates, hobbies, private time, vacations, etc. To keep the flame alive.
If you let life get in the way, the romance can die.
Right now, yes the om is in the picture...so you may not be getting her full attention...but you don't know what she's thinking or feeling about you...even if she says she's not romantically interested. It sounds to me that despite chopping all your hair off, you are taking excellent care of yourself.
Tells us more about when you had romance in your life...what did you do for her and what did she do for you? Did you read the chapter about when things were good in the R? Spend some time with that chapter and make some notes about that. Were you spending more time together, did you share a hobby, did you go on dates? Think back to those times.
