Who the heii are you? I thought when Prince changed his name it was to a symbol not an insect! I am little slow so I will pick up on your new name soon!

Just take the trip for what it is and don't beat yourself up to much for adding the little comment. She was the one suggesting you guys go away together, and you tested the waters back.
The vacation is the perfect chance to really build on something. I had the opportunity but screwed it up. Stay on the detatchemnt and building yourself up, and DO NOT fall back into the old patterns! This is what I did, and I pushed/scared my W way to the point she ran to the OM as soon as we got home! There is alot more to it and she made that choose on her own, but I know I contributed to it.
You are making progress Grasshoopppppper so keep going!

Tim my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1