Sometimes I think people are born with the desire or not. In my brain, I think I know that cannot be. I know alot of different things can change the desire level and frequency. I know after the birth of my son (had a hard pregnancy and delivery) I was not so interested in S, bit that didn't last long. I sometimes have a real problem getting interested in it myself because H has ED and its not very exciting, but he can always get me in the mood with the right triggers. BTW he only desires intimacy about once a month. Not going to get graphic here, most of you who know me, know my sit. Anyway, just my 2 cents, for what its worth
