No, I haven't given up on PM, but at this point the first thing is to rule out physical issues like hormonal imbalance, since if that's a problem, nothing else is likely to do any good. I'm also planning to work at convincing her that one huge thing will be to get her thinking positively about sex, and thinking sexy thoughts. I plan to try to arrange at least an occasional evening where we rent an erotic video and watch it together, or maybe shop together for erotica - she needs to spend time exploring different ideas to see what tweaks her interest, but I'm not going to rush things too much - just apply gentle suggestive pressure from time to time, and see where things go. If we start to get a fire going, then PM will likely come back into play, since in order to work with that, you need DATA (i.e. some kind of frequency), of which there just isn't any at the moment (it's been MONTHS....)
