Hi Erin, I found you! All of this SUCKS! (pardon my french) One minute I believe in DB/DR and think I am doing good and then something hits me over the head and I want to tell my H that I am done!! All I know is that I really count on this board and the people here because we are all in the same boat. We are all pitbulls holding on to our spouses and our marriages till the death! Friends and family who know of our situations think we are crazy for putting up with such crap and maybe they are right. Who knows?????
I'll be here for you and will offer encouragement whenever I can. Hang in there!