Quote: Do you all see MC as a clear hindrance to DBing, or just a possible hindrance?
It depends on whether the WAS is going to appease you or because they really want to go, i.e. are committed to at least making a go at saving the marriage. It also depends on the therapist. If you have a good C and your H truly wants to be there, then I think it could help. Since I am new to the whole idea of therapy, maybe I am not the right one to answer this. I think my C has played a HUGE role in me getting to where I am so I am biased now in the opposite direction than I used to be...in favor of therapy.
