If I have come to realize one thing, that stands out among ALL the other things about these sitches it's this; statements that involve finality, i.e. "It's too late do save this" or "I never want to see you again" or "I don't see any reason to ever work on our marriage" or "It was ALWAYS this way between us" are usually false. I would say that more than usually false, they are 100% false because there is ALWAYS some way that things can be different than the way the person making the comment believes them to be.
That's why as LBS's AND WAS's, it's important to understand that no matter what they say, there is ALWAYS tomorrow and with that brings renewed uncertainty, good, bad or otherwise.
