not sure what to do next-please help

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One final small thing to work through for myself - when he moves into his apartment next week, he wants to take the guest bed (we really can't afford new furniture too) I am the practical one, and feel that's reasonable, but alas, the guest bed is the one we bought when we got married almost 9 years ago. It is where our son was conceived, where we all rested moments after he was born at home with our midwife, and where we have spent thousands and thousands of hours together as a family. oh yeah, and it is a $3500 restoration hardware sleigh bed. I could see him taking it and just call it a loss, except I just can't stand the thought of him sleeping with OW on it. Am I being too sentimental? I've lost my filter for such things

I did the same thing. I gave my W all the furniture she wanted for her apartment, but not the bed. I couldn't stand it either, and I've actually had a high tolerance for that sort of thing, even spending a night in their love nest last month with all his stuff and hers mixed together. As a matter of fact, the only other thing I have balked at was when she wanted me to listen to a song that OM wrote that his friend's band recorded.