Quote: PS to GH - your wife has been unwavering in her commitment to her kids - and you are their father. At the end of the day, she gets that she is hurting a family with what she is doing, so she is a different sort of alien than PR's W or my H. Our S can't see that right now. They are leaving our kids just like they are leaving us-blindly. I think in the long run, that gives you a tremendous advantage over muscle bound business man. I know. Small comfort. But take it where you can get it.
Thanks Erin, I really appreciate you taking time to post comments to me on your thread. I do understand the role our kids, AND our commitment to them plays in all this. If anything I am anxious that there is TOO much emphasis placed on the kids, even now. But, no worries. I know I am not only a great dad and my boys love me, but now that I am in shape again, I look great, feel great and will BE great. If she wants to watch, feel her way around (I wish) and then still leave for him, then so be it. Thank you for pointing that out.