Quote: Now, about Germany - I agree that reacting is a bad idea - I just don't see any options here. I'm not ready to make any decisions or give an ultimatum, but I am anticipating how painful it will be to know he is there with her, and I just can't imagine how I will cope. How will I look him in the eye after? How will he look me in the eye?
Erin, is there any way you can get away for a vacation of your own? Just sitting at home while he's in Germany with the OW will be unbearable. Can you get a relative to watch your S?
Btw, if you haven't read them yet, I would suggest Surviving an Affair by Willard Harley and Love Must be Tough from Dr. James Dobson in addition to DR.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
