hey y'all i could really use some insight. See my post last night about discovering how my H is planning getaway in the alps with OW over easter after telling me elaborate lies about a solo hiking trip. Talked with MC this morning - who recommends a confrontation about the lying, if not the seeing of OW, early next week when H returns from business trip. I am so scared he will call it quits, but I don't know how else to go forward. Yes, maybe this is his goodbye trip - but how many of those does one get? I just can't cope again and I guess I am feeling a little bit motivated to bring this into the light just so I don't have to live in this seesaw existance. I sense that calling him on his lie is very non DB, but don't know what else to do. Its not really an ultimatum - rather a boundary about lying to me. (Am I justifying a confrontation?) I'd appreciate any advice y'all have for me. Please. Erin
