When is it time to walk away?

[hopefloats7]

I want to know what happens to these people (men) who don't develop emotionally? Their childhoods must have been very scary places to exist

Spitfire,
I can tell you that you're right on the money about this.
H. and I used to have talks, deep talks at that, in our earlier years of marriage. He did not have a very pleasant childhood once his father became a WAH for o.w. and his parents divorced. He was only about 12 and his world self-destructed. I believe the things that happened during this time frame really wrecked havoc on my H. and he has never recovered from it. He also has no idea how to be a good husband, because he had no proper role model for that.