Ok,thanks for your continued help and support, A bit of advice needed....The lawyer called today and said the seperation papers were ready to sign...i obviously dont want to go through with it..and only got a lawyer because she said she would if i didnt. In your opinion how do you think she would react if i told her that i still did not believe divorce was the answer and if she wanted it she was going to have to do it herself.Ive been pulling back the last couple days,and trying to GAL,and be happy.She paid half of the $500 for this thing but it is my lawyer,and im going to put off telling her its ready as long as i can. Mind you i did ALOT of the begging,pleading thing the first 2 months or so,and she was totally fed up with that,and have only recently pulled back.I dont feel like if this is what i dont want,then i should have by no means got a lawyer for myself and proceeded to go through with it.But i did and this is where i am at..i am in the process odf chilling the rest of the family out as to do no more damage so she doesnt feel so alienated.WE were supposed to meet today to do our taxes together but i actually had plans this morning and forgot my W2's at home. Any advice on this would be appreciated.. Thanks Dee
