Of course nothing happened when you sat back and waited on her....she's LD, that's the nature of an LD person. Same thing happened when I was LD, same thing happened when I waited on my LDH to come to me.....nothing. For whatever reason an LD person is LD, and there are many reasons this could be (disconnect in M, abuse, hormones...or other reasons)...they don't think about sex like the HD person. I still get the feeling from you and your posts that for you this is a right/wrong issue....and you feel your W is wrong, rather than different from you. That you are still looking for us to agree with you, rather than really looking at your R with your W and seeing where you hold accountability.
CeMar....let go of the notion of trying to find "normal"....there isn't a "normal", it doesn't exist. Really, get thee to a counselor....ask these questions of him/her, see what the response is you receive then.
