Let me get this straight. You waited around for an entire year passively observing if your W would ask for sex like some kind of male Jane Goodall with binoculars and an "F Ape Initiation" clipboard?
Does she ever describe you as a "romantic" to her friends and family perchance?
And this waiting around wringing your hands for the day you rock her world with the D bomb. Sorry, man, that's just cold...especially if she thinks things are humming along from now until then.
What will you say when she asks, "how long have you felt like this?"
"Ohhh, YEARS."
If you're unhappy and don't want to be more proactive into what makes an F want to have sex with her attractive partner...and you are insistent this will end in an D, then, please, spare the poor woman these next months or years of her life which will be wasted via your schemings.
Tell her you're done NOW so she still has a chance to find another M more suitable to her needs or lack therof.
Sincerely-
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ