Nope.. it is very helpful. Perhaps a bit painful for a bit, but liberating and pain free after he accepts it.
Lets face it, all the crying, and the "woe is me.. she won't play with my john thomas anymore" does no good.
Neither does telling him some tripe about being a self-pitying baby. He is going through the grieving process.. might as well move on to acceptance. This sex life is dead and all the seances in the world won't help him contact it.
She does not want sex. Done deal. Accept it and move on.
That is real world, grown up and mature help and ideas.
As far as my wife, I tried an experiment. I did not even mention sex.. thought I would see just how cold she was. After a year without her complaining once, I accepted and made my plan.
Forcing her into sex would be as cruel as making me go without it for life. No violence, anger or force, just mature acceptance.
Lighten up Mr aintgettinglain, the time will pass and with the proper planning acceptance can give you, you will be very attractive to the multitudes of divorced women.
Blackfoot.. I'm not resentful etc at all. Why the angry post? There are responsibilities when fathering children.. I choose to honor them with a good nature and not only no complaints but happiness. I only want some sex some day and in keeping with my personality.. I make a long term plan and see it through.
Such judgements also. I am living up to those responsibilities. My wife will be very well taken care of.
I see no problem with making sure I am taken care of also.
Peace to the celibate and the Horny both May they all get what they want!
May they all get what they want!
