Telling someone to just deal with it isn't helpful at all. People come to this BB looking for help and ideas.
If you choose to just deal with it and live the way you are until the time comes for you to leave, then that's your choice, you are entitled to it of course....but advising someone to do that on a "support" BB?! From the comment you left us about your W saying you two are "in tune"...I'm left with the impression she doesn't have a clue you are just biding your time.
People come to this BB looking for help and ideas.
