This is going to sound harsh, but you have GOT to get OUT of your cess pool of self-pity. So you accept that sex is a long way off, yet you ask questions of people as to how to get that very thing... go back and read Stig's post to you again... or better yet, read this and MEMORIZE it:
Quote: And why did you give up all of your control? If you want a neck rub grab her hand and put it on your neck. If she complains? Gets grouchy? Blow it off. "My necks' stiff. Your rubs feel good to me. Sheesh. I'm not asking you to jump my bones, for godsakes. Get over yourself already, babe." (then laugh and tease so she doesn't take it the wrong way) Stop waiting around for her to initiate anything; her black state of mind ain'tgonnagetchaanywhere. Lead. Be confident. Be assertive. Counter her pi$$ines with humor and positivity. She will mirror your frame of mind eventually. That's why it's vital for you to not project negativity.
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K? Do you comprehend his suggestions? AT ALL? If you need to be touched, or you need to cuddle... READ STIG'S POST.... ASK FOR IT. Unless it is in fact all about sex for you. I realize you are starving... so go Masturbate before you ask for a neck rub... don't know how he could get any clearer here....
Corri, who is pretty sure that Stig and Blackfoot were twins separated at birth...
