One thing that amazes me, is that nobody has mentioned Christopher Reeve on this thread! A few years ago, he was being interviewed by Barbara Walters, and she asked him how his wife was dealing with having no sex life. Her assumption was that, since he was completely paralyzed, and on a respirator, that sex was impossible for them. He quickly set her straight, and said that he and his wife had a "very satisfying" sex life indeed. So what I take from that, is that there is NO physical infirmity that cannot be overcome given love and a desire to please one's mate...