chromosphere:

There is almost NOTHING a person can do to avoid sexual thoughts. I was in FREAKING church yesterday and it is EVERY where. I was sitting directly behind a couple in their mid 50's with no children with them. It was innocent enough, but they were sitting very close (when they did not HAVE to). All of her side was touching his side. Something simple, and yet worth a million bucks, just simple touching. And I am sitting their thinking that that will NEVER be me and my wife. She does NOT like touching like this, it invades her personal space, it is uncomfortable, it is hot, someone might see. And this was not the ONLY one like this, their were several older couples like this. And then there are the older couples that have space, LOTs of space betweeen them. THAT is going to be me. It's almost like some people are wired backwards and physical touch makes them UNCOMFORTABLE.