Quote: As far as someone desiring sex unconditionally, can you see how absolutely crazy that is?
Not necessarily. By all rights I should NOT desire my wife, and yet I do. Some nights I feel BAD about even trying to initiate with her, afterall, why would I want to have sex with someone that does not want it FROM me. And yet why do I keep trying, it because of the freaking testosterone!! I crave physical touch, it can not in any way be turned off. When I first came on this board there was a guy that was trying to find a drug, ANY drug that would kill his desire. I can REALLY sympathize with him. As for the wax and wane with desire, if I do, I sure as heck have not noticed it. To not desire sex, that is something I have not experienced in the last 35 years! I can put it out of my mind temporarily, but to actually diminish it, that has not happended yet. If it did, then maybe I would actually be compatible with my wife. Then all the littl things in life that seem to be the FOCUS of her life would actually be something more to me then just the little things in life.
