chromosphere:

THe first thing every man on here gets told is that they should do things for their wives (meeet their needs) and expect NOTHING in return. Is this not "Unconditional". And yet the women is allowed to have excuses for NOT meeting their mans need for sex. Is this not "Conditional". It seems to me that you can not have it BOTH ways. Either ALL needs must be unconditional or they are all conditional. And from the christian readings I have been doing, they tend to say that we should meet our spouses needs UNCONDTIONALLY.

Now in the example of this case, the women is saying that she can not have sex with a man that does not love her unconditonally. She is telling him that his interaction with her must be UNCONDITIONAL while her interaction with him is CONDITIONAL. WTF?