Problem is... I have tried the MC approach. She flat out refuses to go. She has said "the day I go to a marriage counselor is the day our marriage is over." I don't know what it is.. we have had many issues and through all of it she will talk to no one, not family, not friends, not pastors, she is going compltely off of her own internal knowledge. I on the other hand AM going to a counselor as I try to sort out what all is going on. I just wishe she'd join me.
