I guess I'd say, 'yes, of course I would always love you, even if we could never have sex again. Having said that, however, we need to decide with whom it is I shall be having sex. I respect the fact that you no longer want to have sex with me. But that does not mean I am willing to give up the sexual side of me. So, who am I supposed to have sex with? What are the ground rules we will establish?'
If she tells you that she no longer is willing to have sex, AND you are not permitted to go outside the marriage to fulfill this need of yours... you have got yourself one major, major problem.... and I'd be heading into MC pronto.
