Hugs to you, WCW. Sorry that questions and thoughts are swirling you today. I know you'll feel better soon. Don't look to far ahead, just to the next step.
I agree with others....you're assuming that H has forgotten the romantic version of the past. But has he? Is that what's keeping him going. Sometimes, when it's REALLY hard, the memories of good times are the only thing that keeps you there. You hate to bag all of that so quickly.
I think this may be a little backlash from the great week last week--from being on a high for several days. get that back....think of little positives now, good times from past and get the PMA back. It'll rub off on him and get things jump-started again. Remember, it took him a LOT to reach out to you last week...he needs to see you receptive...not always with a smile pasted on your face, but receptive in many other ways.
I also think the trailer incident shows that he is insecure and uncomfortable when facing an issue that points to your disappointment in his financial abilities....like perceiving that you might think the trailer incident was "just another string of irresponsible moves from H" I know that you've withdrawn from asking anything about his projects for the both of you, finances, etc, but can you change this too (he may perceive this as annoyed apathy), to actions that show detached support?
