Sorry about the down things, but there are ups too. Coffee was nice, and he stayed. If you don't want his sloppy seconds, take them and sell them. Stuubborn, yes you are. He knows where the bedroom is, and who knows whats going on in his head when he's roaming the halls. Did you say that your bedroom is upstairs? if he is downstairs, he has to have some reason to wander up. I am telling you that it would be a huge step for him to walk into that room while you are asleep. A safe place would be much easier. Don't focus on the negatives, focus on the positives, and wrap some duct tape around your hand and that plastic spoon. Your a stubborn gal, try to be more stubborn about the goal ratheer than the path to get there.