Quote: A little thing like this a good start, but I can’t help but think of the million things that are still so wrong, how do we ever chip away at all of that? It becomes depressing and overwhelming, I have to step away from those thoughts, and just dwell on the good things.
I hear you. I am battling this too. I ahve been trying to remember that this is just my neg. controlling tape in my head trying to "protect" me by expecting that things won't work out. Staying focused on the postive things is key. I mean just look at all the pos. that has happened. I bet if someone told you months ago that you would have that tickling match/look in eyes exchange today you would have not beleived them or thought only a miracle could make that happen.
Isn't it amazing what people can do when we believe in them and have compassion for them? I mean a huge part of it is for me at least, that even when my H or someone hurts me it is only because they are human and hurting or afraid.
Kind of a liberating thought for me.
GO, WCW, GO!!!
brava
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05
