Hey Piglet, I'll wobble on over. Sorry you're having a tough time. I've asked myself a lot about my life as it was, as it is, and as it would be with or without H. For now, and I hope for the future, it will be better with him. But there is a LOT of work to do. Is it easier with him or without him?
bigAl, where have you been? You didn't know? geewhiz, I thought we were friends and you kept better track of me than that. I know, I know - so many woman so little time, and you're a busy boy. I'm not coming over though, you'd get me drunk on 3 whiffs and then make me take care of your dogs.
Becca - you passed!
H is home already, fairly early for a Monday night.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.