Gel this is Chrissy cheering you on.
You are right on the spot.
Either he wants help or he wants to just complain his choice he can make the first move.
We all hear things that we don't want to around here at one time or other. But dissappearing to later reappear with another generalized question/statement is not helping yourself CeMar either open the drapes so others can see what is going on inside or keep doing what you are doing and groping around in the dark.