Quote: What occurred with Sarah, while painful, is also a clear example of a BOUNDARY. You are capable of them... even though what seems to be a black and white issue you might claim as an 'easy' one. In this instance, you refused to be a 'victim' with Sarah. You cut her out of your life. Period. Friends don't do that to friends. Period. No ifs ands or buts. Period. Non-negotiable item. Period. Got it? Yep. That's a boundary.
Eeriely (sp?) enough, that's almost word for word what I wrote before I lost my last post. Yes, I can see that I did the *right* thing with Sarah. She just wasn't someone that I wanted in my life. I didn't want to hear her explanations or justifications. I just wanted never to deal with her again.
As for the rest.... I'm sleepy, but I'll think about it in the morning.
