Any other views?

And just let me add that H was a real sweetheart these last couple of days. I was having a hard time with a work-related issue and he comforted me, actually gave me a big hug , told how much I meant to him and took me out to dinner at my favorite restaurant. So maybe it's not as totally hopeless as I made it seem?????

And ::yelling:: BLACKFOOT if you're reading this, I would really really appreciate your insights and any specific suggestions that you might have, since you seem to usually have advice that really resonates with me.