My error, I remember you saying you weren't married...I merely forgot that detail. My point to you still stands regardless though. Tell him to leave.
You are weighing the benefits of a possible future R with someone else, that sure will have a set of problems unique to it....against continuing on living with a man who has already told you he's only there for your child, that he has no interest in having a loving/intimate R with YOU. He's telling you straight up....that you won't have what you want.
True, any other R will have it's own set of of problems...all do. But would you choose to stay in an R where you are guaranteed you won't be getting what YOU need over getting back out there and having a very real possibility of being able to find a fulfilling R? That doesn't make sense to me.
