Should the OM ever be approached?

[Mike_B]

only thing that got his attention was a face to face.

What happened with that?


StrongNSassy, thank you for your wise thoughts. Knowing it's about me and not him makes me feel a little more empowered.

I'm very glad I found this place. I wish I had 8 months ago. It's discouraging when well-meaning friends and family want me to give up. This isn't like being dumped by a girlfriend. Losing your spouse is like losing two thirds of your life. And I don't want my kids growing up in a broken home.