Then what explains HD women? HD women often ARE aggressors
first any 'explanation' about HD women is going to be only theory and conjecture on my part. Give me a MRI machine, 5000 women and a couple years and then maybe we could have a decent conversation about this. I have implied at the reasons why before. But you believe its up to your W to fix. So your sitch is hopeless. She will never be HD.
Second, whatever it is, is not a solution for you. You arent willing to lead the way there, so you arent ever going to get there. It seems to me that all you get from your reading, is what she needs to work on. Doesnt it suck to feel powerless? I would hate that feeling. I would grasp like a drowning man at anything I could do to change me.
In case you havent noticed, when the women are aggresors --in the wrong way --as peceived by the male, it mucks things up also.
cemar you mentioned drugs to remove desire. They exist. Sex offenders take them and become chemically castrated. Knock yourself out with it, if thats what you want. There is a birth control shot for women called Depo-Prevara. That will fix your desire nicely.
I believe Dr Harleys workbook is aimed at couples. Since you dont have a work mate IYO to join you in the workbook exercises, its not an option for you. Your head must surely be bruised by now. It makes me wince watching you bang it.
We are of no use to you here obviously, as you always have a counter argument but never details.
You should hire a professional. I am sorry I was of no help to you. Good luck.
